I want to talk a little bit about this slap!! In all honesty..
🕑 Added 2023-08-26 15:00:11 +0000 UTC
I want to talk a little bit about this slap!! In all honesty, it is something that's quite hard for me to actually do. π₯΄ I am extremely cautious about my own strength, because I feel very guilty and sad when I accidentally hurt someone, and those instincts are hard to override even when your partner wants it!
Leo and I obviously discussed this aspect of the scene before playing together. (Never, EVER spring a kink on your partner in-the-moment! ALWAYS discuss it BEFORE having sex or a scene!) Even so, I found as we were fucking that I was struggling to do more than a little *fwap*. π
To overcome this, as you will see if you check out the full video (π), I started to verbally tell Leo when and where I was going to slap him. This helped me get immediate feedback that everything was okay to proceed. His little nod at the beginning of this clip is his response to my dirty talk telling him about what was about to happen. And look how heavily I allow my palm to fall after that! It really worked well for both of us to be comfortable and immersed in the moment.
