***Clip title: The Slippery Slope of Findom***
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🕑 Added 2021-12-03 13:54:02 +0000 UTC
***Clip title: The Slippery Slope of Findom***
You've probably noticed that financial domination does not feature as strongly in my content as other forms of femdom. This is because I lead with female domination more generally, of which findom is one of many constitutive elements. Put another way, I consider myself a lifestyle Domme who practices findom as opposed to a FinDomme who is solely interested in financial domination.
That said, I absolutely love financial domination because money is power and thereby a means to exchange it. The world runs on money and you'd be daft to believe you don't think about it daily. Extracting money from a sub is not only a fun game but a very important way for which subs can demonstrate their obedience and to give up control.
Findom fantasies often begin smaller in scale. Few subs begin their findom journey with a desire to spend all their hard-earned money on a woman. I'd say most subs - and most men in general - get pleasure out of buying a woman beautiful things. It feels good to use money as a language of devotion. It also feels good to see the fruits of your labour manifest in beautiful shoes on her feet, fine jewelry, stunning wardrobes, etc.
But that's just a gentle entree in findom. It's easy to part with a bit of money to buy something nice for someone you admire. For those of you who are more service-oriented, spending typically hovers in the space of thoughtful gift-giving. For those of you who really want to relinquish control via your finances, gift-giving and smaller tributes are simply a slippery slope into a much more intense version of servitude.
What's funny about most of you finsubs is your inability to understand the full landscape of decision-making and consequences that lies ahead of them. First of all, most of you don't even identify as finsubs - you see giving as something you like to do but not the primary means through which you want to be controlled. That's your first fail. Second, you overestimate your self-control and underestimate the power of a Domme. You really think that sending an initial tribute or gift is just that. A simple send. You think it'll maybe progress a little bit further, but that's about it.
What you've failed to account for is that upon sending money or a gift to a Domme, and sharing with her that it felt so good, you've entered a power exchange that will be increasingly difficult to get out of. You've not only elicited her attention with money, but you've exposed your vulnerable side. She knows you're weak. She knows you feel like you're floating when you send. She knows you're rock hard and probably stroking and leaking. She knows that when you're in this state, she can make you keep sending, and sending, and sending... And every time you send you embolden her further, because she's not only money hungry, but more importantly, power hungry. She loves watching you try to earn the spot of her best bitch, and you better believe she's not going to let you stop trying until you've reached a limit.
And that's what this clip is about. It is about a highly predictable path down the rabbit hole of financial domination. You can't see it because you're too caught up in your ego believing that you have more control than you actually do. But the path ahead is very clear from where I'm standing because I'm the one who built the path through which you're being lead.
