Clip title: ***Beta Therapy-Fantasy with Dr. Maria, Part I**..
🕑 Added 2021-12-22 01:31:56 +0000 UTC
Clip title: ***Beta Therapy-Fantasy with Dr. Maria, Part I***
The thing about submission is that most of you betas have difficulties coming to terms with your beta identity. You go through your life tricking yourself into believing that you are 'normal' or 'average'. And to some degree, the lies you tell yourself become reaffirmed in the social world where others are obliged to treat you with basic and respect and dignity. This gives you the confidence to try to have intimate relationships with women. You think it's a reasonable goal to get a girlfriend, have regular sex, get married, etc.
The problem is that many of you still experience chronic cognitive dissonance. That is, you feel there is a disconnect between the way you're living your life and your actual values. Somewhere deep down you know that you're not like other men, that you are far from 'typical' and are thereby not really deserving of the experiences of the typical man. It feels weird to approach women, doesn't it? It feels weird to ask them out on dates, because you know a 'yes' is not something you should expect from them. When they do say yes, deep down you question whether they actually *really* want to go on a date with you, or if they're just being polite. (It's the latter).
For many of you, these feelings of inferiority stem from your below average dick size. In this sense, I see beta identity as being born from both nature and nurture. You're born with a cock that is physiologically inadequate - a cock that will never appeal to women except those who are asexual. By the time you're conceived you already have a genetic predisposition to be below other men and inadequate to women. Then nurture kicks in. As you get older, you begin to receive signals in your social environment that dick size is intimately tied to masculinity. Being social animals, you begin to make comparisons between yourself and your better-endowed male peers. By junior high, you're acutely aware of where you rank in the pecking order, and it's not very high. You internalize the inferiority that stems from your naturally useless dick, and herein begins the formation of your beta identity.
Of course, such identity formation is anything but stable and linear. Rather, it's wrought with complexity, confusion, and equivocation. That's because while all biological and social cues suggest you are a beta, we live in a context where the idea of 'equality' and 'human rights' form the backbone of our collective ideology. Because you *are* naturally and socially inferior, but society tells you that everyone is equal, you find yourself in a perpetual identity crisis.
That is, until you find a Domme who can cut you a very clear path through the muddy water. Experienced Dommes can see your problem from a mile away. As agents of power, we know how to re-orient you onto the path of happiness. The truth is that your primary problem is that you resist your beta truth, and you'd be far more comfortable if you just accepted it. A large part of my role as a Domme is guiding betas through this existential crisis. And it always starts with the hard fact that you are, and always will be, an inferior beta male whose only purpose on this earth is to serve women.
