Clip title: **Femdom 101, Part I: Mind Frame**
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🕑 Added 2022-05-11 00:02:04 +0000 UTC
Clip title: **Femdom 101, Part I: Mind Frame**
There's a very unfortunate ratio within femdom in that there are so few dominant women available for the large volume of male subs seeking submission. For every Domme there must be *at least* 100 subs. This ratio becomes even more extreme when limiting your interest to lifestyle domination (that is, excluding pro-Dommes who do session-based domination only). I'd conjecture that there are thousands of subs for every lifestyle Domme, which is an unfortunate ratio given how many men are interested in integrating D/s dynamics into their daily life.
To explain this disparity, most people assume the problem is that there simply are not enough women who are interested in being dominant. The supply is low. Most women want to feel even-keeled or even feel "naturally" submissive to men, hence why there are so few of us that exist.
I think this explanation is a red herring - a distraction from the truth.
In my perspective, most women would *love* the life of a lifestyle Domme like myself. I believe this to be true based on my own extensive conversations with other women. When I tell them about my life, the vast majority ask me for more information. They want to know how to get into it, how to find subs. They ask me to mentor them, to guide them into my world.
Seems to be in contradiction of the more common theory that women typically aren't into domination, right?
Herein lies the bigger question, then: If many women are interested in dominating men, and there are many men available to be dominated, why aren't more women dominating men?
To me, the problem is that most subs don't actually know how to be great submissives. You don't give off a vibe that generates interest in a woman to dominate you. This is most likely because you're leading from a place where you're seeking to have your kinks satisfy her, not the other way around. Should that be your thing then you are well-suited for a professional Dominatrix, as she will curate that exact experience for you.
But for the rest of you whose fantasies fall deeper into the realm of lifestyle femdom, you're going to need some training. You need to be the type of sub who inspires women to want to keep you around. I can assure you that most of you are in a state of infancy when it comes to your submissive development.
This is why I've created a series of Femdom 101 training videos, just for you. I'm going to give you the ins and outs of female supremacy, tackling topics like purpose, sacrifice, reward and punishment, and communication.
Today, we start with mind frame.
Go check your DMs for this clip. This is the beginning of your submissive training, and your potential entree into a kinky and meaningful relationship with a dominant woman.
Let's reverse these ratios.
