Clip title: **Spit Bitch**
It should be of no surprise that..
🕑 Added 2022-08-09 21:02:52 +0000 UTC
Clip title: **Spit Bitch**
It should be of no surprise that the Domme to sub ratio is greatly skewed out of men's favour. On any given week, I have handfuls of local subs messaging me with requests to serve, most of whom have been seeking a lifestyle Domme for months or even years without success.
One might assume that I get tired of being inundated with requests at this volume, but that's not quite true. It all comes down to management. Dealing with the volume of requests only becomes exhausting when I'm actively seeking something or someone specific instead of passively scanning the scene. That is, I don't look for good subs, but I also don't keep the door closed to potential. I let the masses come to me with zero expectation about whether any of them will impress me or not, and simply wait until one has qualities that may be promising. Relatedly, I easily sort through the pile of requests by looking for keywords, tone, or communication styles that have long proved to be constitutive of top-tier submissives. Within ten seconds of reading an e-mail, I can tell if a sub's primary underlying intention is to improve my life or to satiate his sexual desires. I can pick up on these intentions even if a sub doesn't explicate or is even consciously aware of them. All to say, I can move through the massive piles of e-mails within a few short minutes, and isolate the promising requests from the throwaways with minimal thought or energy.
Message requests are simply the first wall a sub must climb to get to my feet. As we correspond further, I'm assessing every interaction, from the content of conversation to response speed to the volume of dialogue. Subs who are in my inbox with incessant requests to begin serving, for example, get dropped pretty quickly. I decide the cadence at which the relationship progresses - not subs. A failure to restrain oneself from repeatedly messaging a Domme is indicative of an inability to anticipate her needs, which is antithetical to femdom. So, even as some subs get their foot in the door with a well-written e-mail, many fail at this intermediary step.
Finally, a few subs break through the bottle neck of requests and land themselves in my presence. After some vibe checks, I'll invite them to serve me more wholly in person. But this is where it gets really hard, and where they're being assessed on a much more critical level. I push subs very deep, very quickly, which is why I rarely accept requests from novices. I have a sharp tongue, and it's of no interest to me to dilute my thoughts and words in fear that I may hurt a sub's feelings. I also have deep proclivities towards extreme humiliation and pain - far be it from any sub to expect I pull back for their sake. And as I'm humiliating, degrading, and harming a new sub, I'm paying careful attention to their response to assess whether they embrace what I deliver or if they're trying to protect themselves against it.
In the next series of clips, you're going to be watching a sub who made it through the earlier stages of vetting and is now at my feet for the first time. He is applying to be a cuck, but before I introduce him to my boyfriend he needs to impress me. Because my subs are a representation of me, I never introduce them to my lovers and friends until I'm convinced they're of the highest quality.
Let's see what he's made of.
