Clip Title: **Potty Treats**
Femdom is as much about reward..
🕑 Added 2022-10-28 19:01:17 +0000 UTC
Clip Title: **Potty Treats**
Femdom is as much about reward as it is punishment. Even though BDSM leans heavily towards punishment as a mode of training, even the best subs become fatigued when streams of punishment are not punctuated by reward. In fact, it has been long established that positive reinforcement has a stronger influence on behaviour change than punishment. You become more eager to impress when I tell you that you've been a good boy for me. You have more energy to serve me in the highest capacity when I release you from the dog cage and allow you a night to sleep on a bed. You are overcome with feelings of privilege when I let you worship my feet. You feel centred and appreciative of my grace when I release you from chastity and let you give me a cum tribute. You feel loyal to me when I let you sit quietly at my feet and let you watch a movie with me instead of putting you away in another room. And you feel even more connected to me when I throw my movie snacks on the floor for you to eat, because sharing food is the most primal way humans demarcate who belongs in their group and who is excluded.
But femdom wouldn't be femdom if women were constantly rewarding you - you need to first be broken down before being built back up to my standards with reward. So, if in the vanilla world the ideal ratio between reward and punishment is about 90/10, in my femdom world it's the reverse.
Even still, I find this ratio a bit overly gratuitous. Ten percent reward doesn't always sit well with me, at least not for most subs. Few have reached the level of servitude where they've been broken enough to be rewarded so generously. This is why I often intertwine reward with punishment for subs in training. I tell you that you've been a good boy, but you could be much better. I allow you a night to sleep on a bed like a regular person, but you must do so listening to gay porn on loop through your headphones. I let you worship my feet, but only for a minute to tease you with the taste. I release you from chastity to let you stroke, but kick you in the balls while you're cumming to ruin your orgasm. I let you watch movies with me, but you must do so while kneeling on bottle caps. And I share my favourite treats with you, but with a twist...
Go check your DMs to see the training in progress.
And message me directly when you've summoned the courage to have a turn.
