What do you need for perfect sex?
❤️ Physical chemistry. Th..
🕑 Added 2022-05-15 04:06:05 +0000 UTC
What do you need for perfect sex?
❤️ Physical chemistry. This is the base. Without her, sex is plastic, no matter how experienced and technically skilled both partners are.
Although, I noticed that men do not always notice the lack of chemistry, they are quite satisfied with the technically perfect part of the process. Such as a skillful throat, the presence of an orgasm in a woman (even if this orgasm is purely a physiological discharge for her, without waaaaa), ease in changing poses, lack of shyness.
I won't speak for all women, but personally, I don't have a technically savvy experienced partner if I don't have a rabid animal chemistry on him so that I want to kiss and lick him from head to toe and back. I need the roof to fly off, the brain to melt and I wanted anything, any perversions without borders, shyness and disgust. In my experience, this is possible only if there is a strong chemistry, namely animal, physical. Plus admiration for him as a person and trust.
The most interesting thing is that until you me et these feelings, you can calmly fuck and enjoy ordinary sex without chemistry. Sometimes you feel a little better, sometimes a little worse, but, in general, - OK.
But if you have met and lived in this chemistry for several years - that's it, there is no turning back and "just sex" with technically experienced good partners becomes like after covid, without taste and smell.
But, the difficulty is that finding partners who turn on this chemistry is not so fast and not so easy. Also, so that the person turned out to be normal and did not break your life. Because fucking sex is one thing, and a relationship with someone who gives you this very sex is quite another. Our animal and social parts are not always friends with each other and, sometimes, problems arise.
And what if a person is insanely interesting, but there is no chemistry? It's happened to me. I have never regretted such sex, it has always been a positive experience. And this, again, is more important than experience, technique or appearance for me. But there was still not enough passion in him.
The coincidence of temperament and sexual constitution. If one has already had enough, and the second is still not enough - so-so story.
The coincidence of all sexual preferences and perversions. Although, if point 1 is followed, then there are usually no problems here and everything turns out somehow by itself, at least I noticed that from my experience.
Therefore, when I read blogs about men's pickup (yes, I read this), I want to say: "Guys, all you need is not to learn all these tricks and manipulations, but just to find a girl who will turn on chemistry for you. All. However, for this it is very useful to greatly increase the number of acquaintances and contacts. And, at the same time, throw out all prejudices. When chemistry turns on, sex can easily happen 2-3 hours after dating. Do not offend the girl by writing her down as a "whore" for this - so you can miss the diamond.
No matter how much you study sex, what poses and techniques you would not have mastered, if there is no chemistry, it will all be honed, but automatic and rather useless gestures. Only those who have never met "chemistry" will be able to evaluate them.
The question arises: "And if chemistry turned on some stupid goblin?"
So don't go on dates with dumb goblins. Now almost everyone gets to know each other online - this is a great opportunity to weed out such characters at the correspondence stage. To learn values, to study the coincidence of interests, tastes, life goals. And at the me eting, just check the chemistry.
This is also not a guarantee that everything will be perfect, but exactly what will be remembered and ashamed to tell 🤪
Have you ever had chemistry in your life?
