Does sex spoil friendship?
There is a popular opinion that s..
🕑 Added 2022-06-05 04:10:08 +0000 UTC
Does sex spoil friendship?
There is a popular opinion that sex will spoil the friendship between a man and a woman. Why spoil it? Because then everything will become very unclear. The watershed will be crossed, before which there was no sex, and here it already was.
And often there is everything before this watershed: the pleasure of meetings and communication, jokes understandable only to you, light flirting, light sexual tension, fantasies. But there is no sex.
Why? As long as the next step is sex, then everything is clear. You don't take this step and that's it. And if he did? After sex, everything becomes very unclear. It is unclear what to do next. Start dating as a couple? Or just have sex sometimes? Or pretend that there was no sex? Or was, but it was an accident and it won't happen again. Friends don't fuck, do they? Or yes?
In general, friendship is the foundation of all relationships. It is from friendship that healthy love relationships flow. Friendship is the foundation. And, if you are ready to go from friendship to a relationship, then sex will definitely not spoil it.
But if you are not ready, then you just need to decide whether you have a place for friendly sex or not.
