WARNING WRITING A BLOG, AND THIS IS A ROUGH DRAFT.
Being a ..
🕑 Added 2020-02-18 05:19:16 +0000 UTC
WARNING WRITING A BLOG, AND THIS IS A ROUGH DRAFT.
Being a sexual being in the public eye can be kind of intimidating. You will never know.. No, I take that back some of you may know what I'm talking about. I am talking about being an adult film actor or actress. Or, not speaking about adult film at all. Maybe, I am talking about being a sex worker in general. Now, what am I talking about? Sex worker is an umbrella term for many different adult occupations. Let me name a few. There are adult film actresses and actors some call them pornstars. Strippers are considered sex workers. Although, some consider their selves erotic dancers. Now, I think we are getting into WHOREARCHY, and we will leave that for another day. That's a bag of popcorn I just don't want to open right now. Phone sex operators are indeed a part of sex work. Webcam girls are sex workers. Even Peep Show girls are sex workers. Sex work is not a bad term. Sex work can be very empowering. As a matter of fact some women who are sex workers do so to reclaim their sexuality after trauma. No matter how someone finds their way into sex work when it comes to this day and age they will find themselves taking pictures and putting them somewhere online. The internet has made sex work a powerful force to be reckoned with. Sex workers flood social media. Social media has made fantasy reality for those seeking that sort of thing. Along with power always come some sort of stigma. We live in a world where everybody wants to psychoanalyze you. There are so many stereotypes. Could you imagine having a job that you love, but you are constantly stereotyped by the public? Many sex workers do love their work. As far as the internet goes to someone can click on a picture they're bound to put a comment somewhere. When we show our most intimate,.. How can I say this? When we share keyword, SHARE, ourselves in such an intimate ways we leave an opening to be disappointed, or get our feelings hurt. Some say you need to have tough skin to be a sex worker.We need to have skins so thick that nasty comments won't pierce it. Some may ask why would we even put ourselves in that position? Why would we expose ourselves like that? Why would we let people bother us? We do have feelings ya kow. We are human beings. We are real people despite the photoshopped pictures that people perceive. A sex workers we create a persona. We can literally be anybody that we want to be. Some people go into sex work just for that reason. As a sex worker some doors are opened while others are slammed in our faces. It is always been baffling to me when, usually a man has something to say about a woman being a whore. Whores tend to be on the tongue of every frat boy, and every businessman. Even our current president has had some nasty stuff to say about whores. Why is sex bad? Why does being sexually open automatically equal being less of a person? How does giving oneself in a sexual manner to someone else devalue them in some way? Why are sexual beings devalued at all? Do they not satisfy and emptiness? I mean, if you are someone buying a sexual service from a sex worker you would definitely be filling an emptiness of theirs. As a matter of fact you may actually be feeling more than their wallet. Some sexual beings thrive on sex. Even when money is involved. Money just makes things a little bit sexier. In all honesty, thinking back to my early sexual days of one night stands and f****** dudes that are did not deserve my intimacy, being offered money to satisfy a fantasy of theirs feels like Karma. When you get to a certain age, like say 35, you kind of know what you want when it comes to sex. With me that just happens to be money. I like my sex with money. Are the buyers of sexual Services ashamed? Is that why some tend to lash out at people providing those services? Now,not everyone provide sex. I am only speaking from my point of view. Some sex workers would never ever even let you close to touching their bodies. I have to wonder why do people pick you apart when you are brave enough to show a part of themselves to not just you, but the entire world? Why do you think whores are devalued? Please leave a comment and let me know your opinion. Thank you.
