The best ones always have the worst introductions. This isnt..
🕑 Added 2023-05-16 17:18:32 +0000 UTC
The best ones always have the worst introductions. This isnt a story just a personal rant. I remember a wonderful "friend" that wanted to move forward with marriage but I knew he needed a "real" relationship. He was married and got divorced to marry me even though I begged him not to. He sent me an email when he saw my ad lol and I was like why won't this freak text. Well he still only used a flipphone. He wanted to French kiss. He was so insistent. I replied by saying I don't know your hygiene. We went back and forth for awhile. I was staying in awful hotel Because I had not researched the hotels well and it cost a shit load for a shit hole in Cali. He was like ok im getting you out of here. He asked me to lick his ass and I was like no you freak. Conventional sex with a condom and a blowjob. He had a hard time staying hard and I didn't shame but gave him tons of extra time. We ended up just driving around in the sunlight with the breeze blowing amd he told me I would make a great wife taken care of but I was not the working type. I let him kiss me and etc with my mouth closed Because his hygiene was great. The friendship blossomed after all the arguing and me initially wanting to dismiss him. He hated paying and wanted it to be real so I felt I was letting him cheat himself and let him go. He spoiled me like a doll.
He wasn't used to girls my age just being frank and real with him .most wanted to giggle and use him and manipulate him. We functioned like a married couple and my snarky remarks mixed with genuine care and gratefulness amd his dumb assery mixed with being a little boy at heart was a great combo. We still correspond to this day and he asks me for advice and vents a lot. I made him buy an iPhone and he still doesn't know how to use it. I've met the best and most interesting people and don't regret it. I remember everything and relish my memories of better times. Two people with a huge age difference who helped each other out in amazing ways and could truly be themselves.
