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🕑 Added 2023-02-14 07:34:01 +0000 UTC
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I want to give you guys some insight as to why posting naked photos of myself brings me so much joy and pride. I used to think Iโd feel embarrassed somehow about being the kind of person who posts nudes online and starts an onlyfans. I used to think Iโd feel anxiety about the potential of someone from my hometown or a family member discovering this profile, and that anxiety definitely held me back in the past. This perspective, however, has definitely changed quite a bit!
My labia has looked this way for as long as I can remember. When I was about ten, I remember hearing some Dane Cook bit about how gross and unattractive he thinks long labia is. I felt so heartbroken, so ashamed of how my labia looked, and I hid it away. I was embarrassed to take my pants off in front of anyone for years, and would always tuck it inside of myself for nudes that showed my lower half. I never took any close up photos of my vagina, and panicked whenever someone mentioned wanting to see it because I was certain Iโd disappoint them or gross them out.
I never saw longer labia like mine represented in porn, which reinforced the idea that it isnโt desirable. Iโd see plenty of โoutiesโ in porn, but never labia that hang and dangle the way mine do. I totally believed that everyone would think it looks freakish. It wasnโt until I found a partner that absolutely adored and worshipped it that I realized some people prefer longer labia and that my pussy would be seen as a blessing to some of my partners! It took some time to become fully comfortable with it and confident in it, but at this point I honestly wouldnโt want anything about my pussy to change and I truly love how it looks now. I think itโs incredibly unique and beautiful, and posting photos of myself and my labia has helped reinforce that (even if I do get mean or negative comments at times, they donโt phase me at all anymore).
Posting here has not only helped me reinforce seeing my pussy as something beautiful and unique, but it seems to have helped other women who have gone through similar struggles with their long labia! Iโve gotten quite a few messages and comments from women saying that they used to really dislike their labia and were afraid people would think itโs unattractive, but then they look at my posts, see how confident I am in my own skin, and see how many people adore my labia, and this helps them accept themselves a bit more and feel more confident in how their own pussy looks.
I feel that because longer labia isnโt really well represented in porn or entirely normalized at this point, Iโm contributing to helping it be better represented and hopefully help us get closer to a space where any girl with long labia doesnโt have to live in feelings of self hate or fear. I feel Iโm contributing to helping the world move closer to a place where less and less women get their vaginas mangled or ruined from botched labiaplasty that they only went through with because they were afraid no one would see their vagina as desirable. I feel as though posting my nudes and selling my content could help move us closer to a world with more body acceptance and body positivity. If I could change the way even one woman views her labia, then I feel like Iโve made an amazing difference.
Because of all of this, I feel incredibly proud of what I do. As much as I wouldnโt want my family members to have to accidentally come across my nude photos (since I know that might make them uncomfortable) I donโt believe Iโd feel any shame or embarrassment because of how much pride I feel in it and because I truly believe Iโm making a positive impact in the space of body positivity and self love, not only for myself but for others. Iโm allowing myself to represent something that is still a bit underrepresented, and Iโm really proud of myself for doing that!
